Wednesday, September 16, 2020

20 for 2020 September Check-In Part 2

 

Welcome back to installment 2 of September’s 20 for 2020 update. In my last post I reviewed the first 10 goals of our 20 for 2020. Here’s how we are doing on the last 10…

1.       Open, and use, a Health Savings Account for The Husband’s braces.

Pass: This is done! The Husband’s company loads all the money at once, even though it is only taken from his paycheck each pay period. The braces are paid for in full (we got a 5% discount for paying all at once) and The Husband loaded a little extra money to pay for doctor’s appointments throughout the year! We have used this account for other small co-pays and it has been nice to have the money there and not have to figure it in to our budget. This may be something we continue next year, but at a much lower contribution rate.

 

2.       Increase my 403b contributions by $100 sometime during the year.

No progress here: Still no action on this goal.  Planning to do this in September. September is our open enrollment, so I have to make some changes there anyway. This one took a while, but hopefully this month!

 

3.       Increase The Husband’s 401k contributions by 3% by the end of the year.

Pass: With the arrival of August and The Husband’s work-aversary, we have upped his total 401K contributions this year by 3%. He is very close to maxing out his 401k contributions. Next year should do it and then we can start upping my contributions! Currently, The Husband contributes 16% to his 401K with a 3% match from his company. They also give him 6% profit-sharing on the first paycheck of the year. Next year, his contributions will be maxed out and then we will work towards upping my contributions.

 

4.       Have one billing period where I don’t charge ANYTHING (except autopays) on my credit card.

Fail: For whatever reason, this seems impossible to us! Still struggling to do this and the pandemic and quarantining and social distancing are not helping. By necessity we have had to purchase more online which requires us using a credit card.

 

5.       Have a successful “No-Spend” September.

On-track: We’ll see. Now that September is here, we have started our No-Spend month. With my dad’s illness, last year’s No-Spend September was anything but. We are planning for this year to be better!

 

6.       I want to drink the loose-leaf tea I already have and not buy anymore until I am only down to 3 flavors.

Back-On-Track: I bought loose leaf tea once and have since been drinking what we have. I also “shopped” my mom’s cupboards as she is staying with us and have been drinking some of her flavors, but I didn’t buy any more. This is still the same. We have bought tea bags but no loose tea.

7.       Add all our “subscriptions” to our monthly budget.

Pass: All done! Going forward, all our “subscriptions” or monthly recurring charges are an item line on our monthly budget sheet.

 

8.       Don’t spend any money, out of pocket, on supplies for my classroom. (This does not include lessons I might choose to purchase.)

On-track-ish: This one suddenly got much easier! You don’t need to supply your classroom if you aren’t in it! I have bought some curriculum from Teachers Pay Teachers and I did buy some pens and pencils during Back-to-school shopping just because they were so cheap. As I have no students in my classroom, I clearly didn’t need them. They were an impulse buy… Bad Brunette Getting Out of Debt!

 

9.       Keep current (monthly) with what I owe The Kids.

Pass:  The Kids did some more work for us over the last month and I made sure I tallied up what they were owed and paid them all out! We broke it down into savings, spending, and tithing and I am now current with what I owe them! Same… Doing well here!

10.   Check in on my financial goals monthly.

Fail: This should have been easy but I have massively failed here! I’d like to blame the pandemic for this but I really can’t. It gave me more time, not less!

Overall, I’d give myself a B. I am “passing” on 11 of 20 goals, on track with 3 more, “failing” with only 4 of our goals, and due to the pandemic, 2 have become null and void. I’m feeling pretty good about our overall progress. We still have a long way to go but are improving our overall financial situation.

Overall my successes are in mostly the same categories and so are my failures… Must do better. Must put in more effort!

I can’t stress enough the fact that if we are successful with these goals, we will definitely be creating a firmer financial foundation!

Monday, September 14, 2020

Hoping!

 

I am dying for my credit card statement to close!!!

I’m pretty sure we are going to be under $13000 when it closes, but I obviously won’t know for sure until it closes!

Two more days I think!

It’s so great to be making progress!

20 for 2020 September Check-In Part 1

 One of my intentions for this year is to check in on my 2020 financial goals monthly! Although I am horrible at finances, one thing I have learned over our last 10 years of debt, is that when I pay better attention to our finances, our finances do better...

I still believe that if these 20 financial goals are met, we will drastically improve our financial situation by the end of the year! In all honesty, even if only some of these goals are met, we will be in a better place than we were when this year started. Please wish us luck as we try to do better and be better!

It’s actually been several months since I checked in on my goals… since June I think! Eeeek! I haven’t forgotten about them, I just haven’t blogged. Let’s see where we stand.

 

1.       Get credit card debt below $10000. This has been a monkey on my back for way too long!

Pass-ish: We are making progress. I would say we are on-track-ish. I don’t know if we will make it to under $10000 by the end of the year, but we did decrease our debt. It’s going in the right direction. The last couple months haven’t seen much progress, but we haven’t increased our debt, so I will call it a win.

 

2.       Track our family spending every other month of the year.

Fail: Quite honestly, life threw us several curve balls in the last month so tracking my spending has been the least of my worries. Exactly the same as last time I checked in on my goals! With quarantining and social distancing, tracking our spending has fallen WAY down the list! Our food budget has ballooned! We have nothing to do all day but sit home and eat or try new recipes! I should be tracking this so I know how much we are spending on food, but I’m afraid to look!

 

3.       Increase contributions to envelopes and go “cash only”.

Fail-ish: We have actually met 50% of this goal, but because 50% is an F, I’m giving us a failing grade overall. We did increase envelope contributions, but we did not go cash only. We are still not cash only, but we are paying more in cash and charging less. Working on it… Same as last month. However, again, quarantining has lent itself to online shopping by necessity. Groceries and gas we are still using cash, but right now everything else is credit.

4.       Increase Christmas savings.

Pass: We increased from $200 per month to $300 per month. I still don’t know if it’s enough, but it is an increase of 50%. We are almost done Christmas shopping so I’m feeling optimistic. In August, over a 4 day period, I spent over $800 on Christmas gifts; it was more money than we had in the envelope. I actually had to borrow from our “stimulus” envelope and am paying it back in 4 monthly installments. However, I’m still calling this a win! The bigger test will be when it gets closer to October and November and we see where we are!

 

5.       Church Tithing. My goal is to donate $300 EVERY. SINGLE. MONTH.

Pass: So far so good. We donated $300 in January, February, March, April, May, June, July, and August. (We barely made August. I didn’t send out tithe until August 31, but it was still in August.) We have already budgeted the money for the rest of the year, but we need to follow through, which is not always our strong suit. (It’s very important to us to remember to give even amidst all this struggle because the church still has bills that need to be paid, salaries that need to be paid, and community services that they want to provide.)

 

6.       Pay off car!

PASS: I’m very pleased to say that we paid our last car payment and already received our pink slip! This goal is fully completed and met!

 

7.       Once The Husband’s car is paid off, put $345 payment into savings each month towards a new car fund.

Pass:  So far, so good. In every month since our last payment, I have made sure to deposit the “car payment” into our savings. We are seeing good growth in our savings account!

 

8.       Save $5000 above and beyond my “normal savings” or any car savings.

Pass:  We have met this goal! And continue to add to it! I know our refinance helped but we still met the goal!

9.       Meal plan 8 months out of the year.

Null and void:  Due to a world-wide pandemic, this goal got pushed to the wayside. We have been nothing but home for the last six months so meal planning hasn’t been a priority. I may revisit this goal next year but it all depends on the state of the world, literall.

10.   Assuming I can meet all of the above goals, my last goal would be to increase my savings rate.

Pass: I would actually give us a pass on this because we are putting our regular amount in savings plus working on completing a $5000 challenge, plus we put half of our unexpected money towards savings. We have also increased our long term savings rates by increasing our retirement contributions.

As I think these posts are only going to get longer as the year progresses, I have decided to split them up into two posts. I will publish them during the same week but even half of them are a lot to get through!

 

Sunday, September 13, 2020

No Spend Update

 

We spent some money last weekend. Not a ton, but probably more than we should have. The only plus side here being that it was all on food. We spent $10 on donuts, definitely an extra, but we did pay for it out of our food budget for the month, so technically allowed.

As it was Labor Day weekend, we had my sister and her family over for swimming and dinner, so we sent The Kids to the grocery store to pick up some stuff. That added another $26,77 to our tally for the month. That leaves us with $285.66 left to spend out of our $500 budget.

We are not in the danger zone quite yet, but we are inching towards it. We will have to be careful of our spending for the rest of the month to ensure that we have a successful No Spend September.

We are over a third of the way through the month, but we are almost through half of our money for the month. I don't know how successful we are going to be, but we are going to track it and see how it all falls out.

Tomorrow actually brings another Costco trip where we need a lot: milk, fruits and vegetables, eggs, chicken... and that's just what I can think of off the top of my head. 

If we can have $75 left over after our shopping trip, we have a chance of meeting our budget goals, but only if we are diligent!

Saturday, September 12, 2020

No Spend September

 Hi again.

I know it's been a while, but I have been busy. Distance learning is no joke! I went back to school in the beginning of August and our district is requiring us to teach from our classroom. I actually like it as there are way fewer distractions and all my "stuff" is in my room. That being said, I am so tired and so busy! Teaching like this is not what I signed up for and a lot of work! Even though I'm in my 15th year of teaching, it feels like it's my first year and I'm having to create and adapt curriculum like never before.

Okay, rant over.

We are doing our No Spend September challenge again. This is technically year 9, but last year wasn't very successful.

A successful No Spend September is one of my 20 for 2020 financial goals. With the whole pandemic thing, some of my goals have totally fallen by the wayside. However, I'm thinking the pandemic might actually help No Spend September because we can't really go anywhere or do anything, so we don't have a lot of opportunities to spend money.

Just as in years past, we are going to try to only buy food, gas, and bills.

Our normal grocery budget is $600, but for the month of September, we try to only spend $500. I know it's not a big difference, but every bit helps.

Because of the face covering requirements due to Covid-19, I am not doing very much shopping. The Husband does almost all of our grocery shopping now. He is not as "frugal" as I am. In September, I tend to stick to the grocery list and he's a little more loosey-goosey. However, the reality is that we will eat whatever food we buy regardless of how much money we spend so it's won't be a waste.

On the first of the month, The Husband mad a trip to Costco. He spend $177.57, a good chunk of our budget for the first of the month, but he did buy 10 gallons of milk and a bunch of fruits and vegetables so we should be pretty good on those fronts for about 10 days or so.

With the pandemic, we have definitely been eating at more more and being more adventurous in our cooking, which often translates to more expensive; but it has been good. Hopefully, for the month of September we will stay on budget and not have to spend too much money on anything!

Wish us luck!

Thursday, July 16, 2020

July 2020 Goals Check-In Part 1


One of my intentions for this year is to check in on my 2020 financial goals monthly! Although I am horrible at finances, one thing I have learned over our last 10 years of debt, is that when I pay better attention to our finances, our finances do better...

I skipped June and am super late on July... no reason, just Covid and life. Blah, blah, blah.

I still believe that if these 20 financial goals are met, we will drastically improve our financial situation by the end of the year! In all honesty, even if only some of these goals are met, we will be in a better place than we were when this year started. Please wish us luck as we try to do better and be better!

1.       Get credit card debt below $10000. This has been a monkey on my back for way too long!
Pass: We are making great progress here! Getting a refund for our plane tickets put $3000 towards this goal. I actually think we might make it!

2.       Track our family spending every other month of the year.
Fail: Quite honestly, life threw us several curve balls in the last month so tracking my spending has been the least of my worries. Exactly the same as last month! With quarantining and social distancing, tracking our spending has fallen WAY down the list! In one sense, we aren’t spending much money, but in another, very real sense, online shopping is no joke! Also, our food budget has ballooned! We have nothing to do all day but sit home and eat or try new recipes! I should be tracking this so I know how much we are spending on food, but I’m afraid to look!

3.       Increase contributions to envelopes and go “cash only”.
Fail-ish: We have actually met 50% of this goal, but because 50% is an F, I’m giving us a failing grade overall. We did increase envelope contributions, but we did not go cash only. We are still not cash only, but we are paying more in cash and charging less. Working on it… Same as last month. However, again, quarantining has lent itself to online shopping by necessity. Groceries and gas we are still using cash, but right now everything else is credit.
4.       Increase Christmas savings.
Pass: We increased from $200 per month to $300 per month. I still don’t know if it’s enough, but it is an increase of 50%. We have already bought several Christmas presents and I’m happy the money was there to use. So far we are on track but it’s early times yet. Yes! Same! We are over half way done with our Christmas shopping and still have some money in the envelope. I’m definitely calling this a win! The real test will be when it gets closer to October and November and we see where we are!

5.       Church Tithing. My goal is to donate $300 EVERY. SINGLE. MONTH.
Pass: So far so good. We donated $300 in January, February, and March, April, May and June! We have already budgeted the money for the rest of the year, but we need to follow through, which is not always our strong suit. Also, because of social distancing and “shelter-in-place” rules, this could become more difficult because we aren’t actually attending church. I haven't sent July in yet, but we have the money. (It’s very important to us to remember to give even amidst all this struggle because the church still has bills that need to be paid, salaries that need to be paid, and community services that they want to provide.)

6.       Pay off car!
PASS: I’m very pleased to say that we paid our last car payment and already received our pink slip! This goal is fully completed and met!

7.       Once The Husband’s car is paid off, put $345 payment into savings each month towards a new car fund.
Pass:  So far, so good. In the couple of months since our last payment, I have made sure to deposit the “car payment” into our savings. We are seeing good growth in our savings account!

8.       Save $5000 above and beyond my “normal savings” or any car savings.
PASS: We have saved OVER $5000 of additional savings! And it's only July! Many things helped us reach this goal: refunds received from refinancing the house, a Pinterest savings challenge, and our tax refund! I am so happy and so proud of reaching this goal! We are going to continue with the savings challenge and putting our "car payment" away every month. With the uncertainty of the world today, we need to keep growing our savings account.
9.       Meal plan 8 months out of the year.
Fail: This is a hard fail, but it doesn't bother me. We didn't fail because we didn't plan, we failed because of the Corona virus. Because we were home all the time, the need to plan our meals is gone.
10.   Assuming I can meet all of the above goals, my last goal would be to increase my savings rate.
Pass: I would actually give us a pass on this because we are putting our regular amount in savings plus working on completing a $5000 challenge, plus we put half of our unexpected money towards savings. Thinking good thoughts on this one!
As I think these posts are only going to get longer as the year progresses, I have decided to split them up into two posts. I will publish them during the same week but even half of them are a lot to get through!

Wednesday, July 15, 2020

Camp Refund

I have some good news and some bad news.

First, the bad news... due to Covid-19, The Kids church camp was cancelled.

The good news... due to church camp being cancelled, we got a $1200 refund.

Back in December, we paid, in full, for our kids to go to church camp. They would actually be there right now. It was $600 for each kid. Every year, we "plan" for our kids to go to church camp but we have never sent them before. Something always kept us from actually committing: dance, vacation, life, etc.

This year, we actually committed to The Kids to go to church camp and it ends up being a no-go.

I'm very sad that they aren't able to go to camp, but I'm very happy for the bump to our savings!

$1200 will go a long way towards improving our savings after several different things depleted it!


Wednesday, June 17, 2020

June Debt Update

As you know, life went topsy-turvy for the whole world during this last three+ months! We are very lucky to still have our jobs and full paychecks, but life has been crazy!

This debt update is based on our April update because I didn't get around to doing a May debt update. I’m just being real and trying to be transparent. I do these mid-month because our credit card closes on the 15th. I can’t wait for the day when we are consumer debt free and I can do our financial savings updates at the beginning of each month and I don’t have to take into account when our debt cycle closes! 

Although we are not paying off our debt as fast as I would like, I am happy to say that for the fourth update in a row our overall debt decreased; and in a BIG way! Let's get to the update and then we can look more at the "why"!

Here is our current debt totals:

           $13,577.39 Credit Card at 16.74% interest
      
Our total debt stands at: $13,577.39 YIKES! It’s still a lot of debt. All we can do is just keep plugging away. We dug our hole one shopping trip at a time and all we can do is pay it back one month at a time.

Plus side: we paid off 21% of our debt!!!! We started actively tracking our debt again! Our debt decreased! We paid off $3589.62 of credit card debt; again, that's 21% of our debt total!!!! Although we still owe a lot of money, our debt is the lowest it's been since January, 2018! That's something to celebrate! The fact that we haven’t borrowed any more money from The Kids is still a plus to me. We continue to make progress towards our retirement and to contribute $50 a month to our kids’ bank accounts. We are down to “just” one debt. I know it’s a biggie, but it’s exciting to be down to only one debt!

Down side: No matter how much debt we pay off, it’s never enough. We also had a few months of backsliding and not keeping track of where we were that we are still trying to recover from. L Also, we did still charge on our credit card. Of course, I also hate that several hundreds of dollars went towards interest on our credit instead of towards the principal! It’s actually a little depressing to see how long we have been on this roller coaster called debt freedom. We made some poor choices and have been living in a debt cycle for too long!

How we did it: I want to give full disclosure. This was just not an awesome month. This was not just because it was an "extra" paycheck month (because it was). The majority of what we paid off came from a credit for our vacation airline flights. We booked and paid for our family vacation flight back in February and then Covid-19 hit with a vengeance in March. This past week we were able to cancel our trip for a full refund!!! Hence the huge debt payoff this month! Heck, if we could do that much every month, I would only have 4 months left in debt! If only!

Looking forward to: getting our credit card debt below $13,000 () and keeping it that way. And to actually having a chance to meet our goal of getting our credit card debt under $10000 by the end of the year! (I wasn't sure it was something we would be able to do, but this month really gave us a boost!) I’m also looking forward to staying on the debt pay-off and blogging band wagon! I was off of it for too long and it feels good to be making progress again! Even though we have been home, quarantining has been expensive! We have spent SO. MUCH. MONEY on food! I have also bought a lot on Amazon. It’s been dangerous! I have several hundred dollars in a jar that goes towards our credit card balance, but because of Covid-19 the whole going-to-the-bank thing isn't very convenient. But, one of my goals for the next month is to get to the bank and send the money towards our credit card.

Clearly, I’m not in an ideal situation. But if I have to get out of debt one baby step at a time, I can do that.

I hope your debt freedom journey is smooth, uneventful, and beyond successful!

Monday, June 15, 2020

Refund!

Like I wrote about in this post, we planned our family summer vacation. Not only did we plan it, but we paid for non-refundable airline tickets, too. And then Covid 19 happened.

Many of the places we planned to visit on our trip require a 2-week quarantine or are only in Phase 1 of their opening. We couldn't go to anywhere in the places we planned to travel to... Major bummer!

And our tickets were non-refundable. Major bummer!

In doing research to try to get us a refund or voucher, The Husband came across some "law" that went into effect in April that said if there was a major change in your flight, you could request a refund. Then he did even more research!

Our original flight had one layover and a 5:00 pm arrival time into Ohio. When The Husband was checking our flight times, he saw that we now had two layovers and an 11:55 pm arrival into Ohio. He called the customer service reps at Southwest and they were beyond helpful! They said, due to the change we could have a full refund instead of just a voucher. But they were sure to let us know they were extending the use of the voucher out until September 2022. (Quite honestly, I was just happy that we could even get a voucher. And a voucher that we would be able to use. But I was happier with a full credit!)

We opted to get our money back because we didn't want to have $3000 tied up for an unknown amount of time and in such curious circumstances as we are currently living in.

Now this is where things really get exciting for me! We put the tickets on our credit card (to earn points) but transferred the money from our savings account and paid for them already. When the credit hits our account, it will knock out $3000 of debt!

Of course, we still have a lot of credit card debt... but this will definitely be a step in the right direction!

I'm actually super excited to do my debt update this month because it should be good! There should be a big drop in our debt, and put us so much closer to meeting our goal of being under $10000 of credit card debt by the end of the year.

In many ways, I wish that money could go back in to our savings account, but I'm glad it's going to help our overall financial situation! And the reality is, this is our money working for us! And a refund is better than a "credit" or a voucher!

Please continue to with us luck in our debt journey!


Saturday, June 13, 2020

My Email Was Hacked

Oh My Gosh! What a pain this was!

One morning I woke up to a couple emails saying "your account password has been changed". I didn't think anything of it and assumed they were spam. You know, the emails where they get you to click the link and then you really are being hacked?

A couple of days later, I got a similar email from another account. I deleted it as spam. Then about three days later, I got another one, but this is from an account I actually use and had just changed my password about a week prior.

I brought it to The Husband and we got it sorted it out. All secure, new password, no problems.

Then, on the following Sunday, I ordered some stuff from Amazon. Everything went through, no problems. About an hour later, I wanted to check something on my Amazon purchase and I was locked out. My account said I requested 2-factor authentication, which I didn't. I was effectively locked out!

When we called customer service, they proceed to tell me that I requested this and they sent the email to fix the problem. But I wasn't getting any emails. At this point we realized my email had been hacked.

Luckily, Amazon froze my account so no purchases could be made on the card on file and I had to start the very tedious process of changing all my passwords! And they all had to be different! Before this, I was one of those people who only used about 2 or 3 passwords for everything! Once my email was hacked, they just started trying that email combination with that password on "every" shopping website: Amazon, Walmart, Target, Banks, etc.

Luckily for me, with the exception of Amazon, I don't keep credit cards on file with any shopping sites. Otherwise, I imagine, I would have had big charges from Target and Walmart that I didn't make!

I was slowly able to get everything cleared up and all my passwords changed. Although Amazon was very quick to lock my account, they were the most difficult to deal with to get everything cleared up. Eventually, 4 days after we realized for sure my email was hacked, we were able to get everything straightened out. Thankfully, nothing was charged on any of my accounts.

This whole experience sucked, quite honestly! However, the timing of it was very helpful! Being on shelter-in-place gave me the time I needed to sort this whole mess out!

*This has been in my draft folder for 6 weeks. That's when this actually happened. I have been monitoring our credit card and any online accounts very closely and still haven't seen any unknown charges!

Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Stimulus Check

Like most tax paying Americans, The Husband and I received a stimulus check from the government because of the Corona virus. According to "their" calculations, we made too much money to get the full amount.

All told, we got almost $2400. The Husband and I each got almost $700 and we got $500 per child we have.

Then we had to decide what to do with the money. We decided we had four options:
     Option 1: Transfer the money into savings and sit on it.
     Option 2: Send the entire amount towards our credit card debt.
     Option 3: Hybrid of the above options: X percentage towards debt and X percentage into savings.
     Option 4: Take it all out as cash and have it available at home.

We actually went with Option 4. Although we still have debt, we were very lucky during the entire Shelter-In-Place to not have to worry about money. Both The Husband and I were able to work from home and pull full paychecks. For us, the stimulus money was truly a bonus.

We pulled out the entire stimulus check amount and held it available to us in cash. Banks were closing and we didn't know what was going to happen and we thought it was really important to have some cash on hand.

We still don't have a definite goal for the money, but we have it if we need it. We have decided to use it like a little cash safety net.

I know many people were not as fortunate as us and needed to use that money for food, rent, car payments, electricity, etc. so we don't want to take that money for granted and fritter it away on new clothes or random crap.

We want to make sure and keep that money around as a rainy day fund.

Because rain will come and it's better to walk in it with an umbrella if you can!

How did you use your stimulus check?

Monday, June 8, 2020

A Month?

How has it been a whole month since I posted anything?

You would think because we are sheltering-in-place that I would have plenty of time, but that really has not been the case.

I have several post ideas and drafts to get ready, but time has not allowed for it.

In the last month, I have: finished up school, helped my kids' wrap up their school year, cooked and cleaned until I felt like I couldn't cook or clean anymore, paid bills, ferried kids' around as necessary (including a quick trip to Oregon and home again the next day), discovered a leak in our roof, gotten said leak repaired, done laundry, more laundry, and yet more laundry, and with all that, there hasn't been much time to blog.

Now that my summer break has started, I'm hoping I can blog a little more consistently.

I've been so busy that I only started catching up on all the blogs I read this week. I am weeks and months behind on reading success stories of all my blogger "friends" who have paid off debt and made progress.

Anyway, I just wanted to pop on to say I missed blogging and to give a quick update!

Saturday, May 9, 2020

Vacation


Before we were quarantined due to the Corona virus, we bought airline tickets for our vacation. We planned to fly into Ohio and rent a car and road trip through several states. We were going to go into Pennsylvania, New York, into Toronto, Canada, and back down into Michigan, through Indiana, and lastly fly home from Chicago, Illinois.

That plan is in limbo now.

If we had only waited 2 weeks to buy our tickets, we would have been fine; but hindsight is 20/20.
We were due to leave at the tail end of June and return home mid-July. Now we don’t know where we stand.

We are hopeful that if we are unable to travel because of the Corona virus, that the airline will give us vouchers to travel at a later date. We would then “postpone” our trip and hopefully do the same vacation the following summer, or barring that, travel somewhere for spring break next year.

The unknown is the most difficult part for me. We don’t know what the future will hold; we don’t know when we will be allowed to travel; we don’t know if vouchers will be awarded; we don’t know, we don’t know, we don’t know.

I’m hopeful that we won’t lose all of our money and will be able to salvage something for our family vacation, but I’m afraid we’ll lose it all.

The most difficult part of all of this for me is that if we had only waited 2 more weeks, we wouldn’t have to worry about losing our money now! That could be $3000 we never get back! I’m hopeful, but not overly optimistic, that we will be able to travel or at least get vouchers for our trip!

Friday, May 8, 2020

May 2020 Goal Check-In Part Two


Welcome back to installment 2 of May's 20 for 2020 update. In my last post I reviewed the first 10 goals of our 20 for 2020. Here’s how we are doing on the last 10…

1.       Open, and use, a Health Savings Account for The Husband’s braces.

Pass: This is done! The Husband’s company loads all the money at once, even though it is only taken from his paycheck each pay period. The braces are paid for in full (we got a 5% discount for paying all at once) and The Husband loaded a little extra money to pay for doctor’s appointments throughout the year!

2.       Increase my 403b contributions by $100 sometime during the year.

No progress here: Still no action on this goal.  Hopefully sometime in the next 10 months.

3.       Increase The Husband’s 401k contributions by 3% by the end of the year.

On-track: The Husband earned a 3% raise this year! Yeah! We have already designated 2% to his 401k and when his work-aversary comes around in August, another 1% will automatically be added! He is very close to maxing out his 401k contributions. Next year should do it and then we can start upping my contributions!

4.       Have one billing period where I don’t charge ANYTHING (except autopays) on my credit card.

Fail: Charged way more than I even wanted to last month and already have several charges on the statement for April. Again, with “sheltering-in-place” we don’t have many options but to purchase online!

5.       Have a successful “No-Spend” September.

No progress here: It’s not September…

6.       I want to drink the loose-leaf tea I already have and not buy anymore until I am only down to 3 flavors.
Back-On-Track: I bought loose leaf tea once and have since been drinking what we have. I also “shopped” my mom’s cupboards as she is staying with us and have been drinking some of her flavors, but I didn’t buy any more.

7.       Add all our “subscriptions” to our monthly budget.

Pass: All done! Going forward, all our “subscriptions” or monthly recurring charges are an item line on our monthly budget sheet.

8.       Don’t spend any money, out of pocket, on supplies for my classroom. (This does not include lessons I might choose to purchase.)

On-track-ish: This one suddenly got much easier! You don’t need to supply your classroom if you aren’t in it!

9.       Keep current (monthly) with what I owe The Kids.

Pass:  The Kids did some more work for us over the last month and I made sure I tallied up what they were owed and paid them all out! We broke it down into savings, spending, and tithing and I am now current with what I owe them!

10.   Check in on my financial goals monthly.

Pass: Same as last month: so far so good. It’s so easy to be vigilant at the beginning of the year. The real test will be if we are checking in on our goals next October!

Overall, I’d give myself a B. I am “passing” on 10 of 20 goals, on track with 4 more, “failing” with only 4 of our goals, and “on hold” or “not yet started” another 2. I’m feeling pretty good about our start. We still have a long way to go but are making pretty good progress.

Overall my successes are in mostly the same categories and so are my failures… Must do better. Must put in more effort!

I can’t stress enough the fact that if we are successful with these goals, we will definitely be creating a firmer financial foundation!

Tuesday, May 5, 2020

May 2020 Goals Check-In Part 1


One of my intentions for this year is to check in on my 2020 financial goals monthly! Although I am horrible at finances, one thing I have learned over our last 10 years of debt, is that when I pay better attention to our finances, our finances do better...
I still believe that if these 20 financial goals are met, we will drastically improve our financial situation by the end of the year! In all honesty, even if only some of these goals are met, we will be in a better place than we were when this year started. Please wish us luck as we try to do better and be better!

1.       Get credit card debt below $10000. This has been a monkey on my back for way too long!
Pass-ish: We are making progress. I would say we are on-track-ish. I don’t know if we will make it to under $10000 by the end of the year, but we did decrease our debt. It’s going in the right direction. The last couple months haven’t seen much progress, but we haven’t increased our debt, so I will call it a win.

2.       Track our family spending every other month of the year.
Fail: Quite honestly, life threw us several curve balls in the last month so tracking my spending has been the least of my worries. Exactly the same as last month! With quarantining and social distancing, tracking our spending has fallen WAY down the list! In one sense, we aren’t spending much money, but in another, very real sense, online shopping is no joke! Also, our food budget has ballooned! We have nothing to do all day but sit home and eat or try new recipes! I should be tracking this so I know how much we are spending on food, but I’m afraid to look!

3.       Increase contributions to envelopes and go “cash only”.
Fail-ish: We have actually met 50% of this goal, but because 50% is an F, I’m giving us a failing grade overall. We did increase envelope contributions, but we did not go cash only. We are still not cash only, but we are paying more in cash and charging less. Working on it… Same as last month. However, again, quarantining has lent itself to online shopping by necessity. Groceries and gas we are still using cash, but right now everything else is credit.
4.       Increase Christmas savings.
Pass: We increased from $200 per month to $300 per month. I still don’t know if it’s enough, but it is an increase of 50%. We have already bought several Christmas presents and I’m happy the money was there to use. So far we are on track but it’s early times yet. Yes! Same! We are close to half way done with our Christmas shopping and still have some money in the envelope. I’m definitely calling this a win! The real test will be when it gets closer to October and November and we see where we are!

5.       Church Tithing. My goal is to donate $300 EVERY. SINGLE. MONTH.
Pass: So far so good. We donated $300 in January, February, and March, and April. We have already budgeted the money for the rest of the year, but we need to follow through, which is not always our strong suit. Also, because of social distancing and “shelter-in-place” rules, this could become more difficult because we aren’t actually attending church. I didn’t want to set up online giving because of some recent issues I’ve had (more to come on this in a few days/weeks) so I called my church and asked if I could mail them a check. The answer was yes. I mailed a check for our April tithing last week and will do the same for May in a couple of weeks. (It’s very important to us to remember to give even amidst all this struggle because the church still has bills that need to be paid, salaries that need to be paid, and community services that they want to provide.)

6.       Pay off car!
PASS: I’m very pleased to say that we paid our last car payment and already received our pink slip! This goal is fully completed and met!

7.       Once The Husband’s car is paid off, put $345 payment into savings each month towards a new car fund.
Pass:  So far, so good. In the couple of months since our last payment, I have made sure to deposit the “car payment” into our savings. We are seeing good growth in our savings account!

8.       Save $5000 above and beyond my “normal savings” or any car savings.
On-track: After March, we had already deposited $3886 towards our goal of $5000. In April, we deposited an additional $558 (above and beyond our regular savings and not including our “car payment”. (We deposited our federal tax refund of $108 and $450 from the $5000 Savings Challenge.) That comes to a total of $4444 towards our goal. We are 88% of the way to our goal only 4 months through the year! Feeling confident about this one!
9.       Meal plan 8 months out of the year.
On-track: Because our goal is 8 months, I will still say we are on-track. Covid 19 has thrown our whole life into disarray so we did not meal plan for April or really for May, however, we talk and plan our meals the night before. We have a ton of food and more time than we normally do so the need to plan our meals on a calendar for the month has gone away.
10.   Assuming I can meet all of the above goals, my last goal would be to increase my savings rate.
Pass: I would actually give us a pass on this because we are putting our regular amount in savings plus working on completing a $5000 challenge, plus we put half of our unexpected money towards savings. Thinking good thoughts on this one!
As I think these posts are only going to get longer as the year progresses, I have decided to split them up into two posts. I will publish them during the same week but even half of them are a lot to get through!

Sunday, May 3, 2020

What We've Done With Money During Quarantine


In theory, this time of quarantine and social distancing should be cheap… but for some reason it hasn’t been. The Kids aren’t getting their hair cut or nails done, we aren’t going to the movies or out to eat, there are no new books in the house, but we are still finding plenty of creative ways to spend money.

We have shopped online for a lot of stuff we don’t need. We have bought paint for The Girl, a ton of baseball equipment for The Boy, new running shoes for The Husband and me, and myriad other unnecessary things. (Although, I don’t consider running shoes unnecessary.)

Going forward, I’m hoping to not spend too much money online. I don’t know what else we could possible buy, however, I’m sure we will find a way.

One of our local stores has had to shut their doors as they are not an essential business, but the owner has been doing “live” sales on Facebook. I have bought from her both times she has done a “live”. I want to support local businesses and have shops I can go back to once the quarantine is over. 
Between her two “live” sales, I spent just over $200. Obviously, I can’t keep this pace up, but I want her to know I support her!

I don’t see us having too much to buy over the next few weeks, so I’m hoping we will not add anymore to our debt. Also, I won’t need all the money I budgeted for some of our different budget categories in the coming weeks. I’m hoping that “extra” money can go towards our credit card bill.
Our credit card bill is big already this month… I’m afraid the balance might increase so any extra money that can go towards debt will be a boon.

Thursday, April 30, 2020

Debt Update April


As you know, life went topsy-turvy for the whole world during this last two months! I’m sorry my debt update is so late, but blogging has taken a backseat during this time. The Covid19 virus has changed the life of so many people! Us included. It has been an interesting 7 weeks with still more to come. Writing for my blog has not been my priority, but I wanted to update you all on my progress, what there was of it.

This debt update is based on our March update. I’m just being real and trying to be transparent. I do these mid-month because our credit card closes on the 15th. I can’t wait for the day when we are consumer debt free and I can do our financial savings updates at the beginning of each month and I don’t have to take into account when our debt cycle closes! Due to life going sideways, home quarantining, and social distancing, this update is a little late. But, better late than not at all!

Although we are not paying off our debt as fast as I would like, I am happy to say that for the third month in a row our overall debt decreased! It didn’t decrease by leaps and bounds, but we did make progress so I have to take my wins where I can get them.

Here is our current debt totals:

           $17,167.01Credit Card at 16.74% interest
      
Our total debt stands at: $17,167.01 YIKES! It’s a lot of debt. All we can do is just keep plugging away. We dug our hole one shopping trip at a time and all we can do is pay it back one month at a time.

Plus side: we started actively tracking our debt again! Our debt decreased! We paid off $117.93 of credit card debt; that only amounted to .06% of our total debt, not even 1 whole percent!?!?! The fact that we haven’t borrowed any more money from The Kids is still a plus to me. We continue to make progress towards our retirement and to contribute $50 a month to our kids’ bank accounts. We are down to “just” one debt. I know it’s a biggie, but it’s exciting to be down to only one debt!

Down side: No matter how much debt we pay off, it’s never enough. We also had a few months of backsliding and not keeping track of where we were that we are still trying to recover from. L Also, we did still charge on our credit card. Of course, I also hate that several hundreds of dollars went towards interest on our credit instead of towards the principal! It’s actually a little depressing to see how long we have been on this roller coaster called debt freedom. We made some poor choices and have been living in a debt cycle for too long!

Looking forward to: getting our credit card debt below $17,000 () and keeping it that way. I’m also looking forward to staying on the debt pay-off and blogging band wagon! I was off of it for too long and it feels good to be making progress again! I am also looking forward to getting our total debt below $17,000. Even though we have been home, quarantining has been expensive! We have spent SO. MUCH. MONEY on food! I have also bought a lot on Amazon. It’s been dangerous! April has been another very expensive month (ironically) so I’m hoping our credit card balance doesn’t increase and we can actually get the balance down!

Clearly, I’m not in an ideal situation. But if I have to get out of debt one baby step at a time, I can do that.

I hope your debt freedom journey is smooth, uneventful, and beyond successful!

Wednesday, April 29, 2020

April 20 for 2020 Update Part 2


Welcome back to installment 2 of April’s 20 for 2020 update. In my last post I reviewed the first 10 goals of our 20 for 2020. Here’s how we are doing on the last 10…

1.       Open, and use, a Health Savings Account for The Husband’s braces.

Pass: This is done! The Husband’s company loads all the money at once, even though it is only taken from his paycheck each pay period. The braces are paid for in full (we got a 5% discount for paying all at once) and The Husband loaded a little extra money to pay for doctor’s appointments throughout the year!

2.       Increase my 403b contributions by $100 sometime during the year.

No progress here: Still no action on this goal.  Hopefully sometime in the next 10 months.

3.       Increase The Husband’s 401k contributions by 3% by the end of the year.

On-track: The Husband earned a 3% raise this year! Yeah! We have already designated 2% to his 401k and when his work-aversary comes around in August, another 1% will automatically be added! He is very close to maxing out his 401k contributions. Next year should do it and then we can start upping my contributions!

4.       Have one billing period where I don’t charge ANYTHING (except autopays) on my credit card.

Fail: Charged way more than I even wanted to last month and already have several charges on the statement for April. Again, with “sheltering-in-place” we don’t have many options but to purchase online!

5.       Have a successful “No-Spend” September.

No progress here: It’s not September…

6.       I want to drink the loose-leaf tea I already have and not buy anymore until I am only down to 3 flavors.

Fail: With “shelter-in-place” orders, our local stores are suffering. My favorite local store does “Facebook live” sales and I bought tea off her live. It was worth it because I was out of my favorite flavor and I want to have a store to go back to once this is all over. However, that is the ONLY loose leaf tea I have bought.

7.       Add all our “subscriptions” to our monthly budget.

Pass: All done! Going forward, all our “subscriptions” or monthly recurring charges are an item line on our monthly budget sheet.

8.       Don’t spend any money, out of pocket, on supplies for my classroom. (This does not include lessons I might choose to purchase.)

On-track-ish: This one is really difficult. I purchased a video converting program, but still no actual supplies. With the idea of “distance learning” this has been even more difficult! But, I haven’t bought anything yet!

9.       Keep current (monthly) with what I owe The Kids.

Pass:  I tallied up what they were owed and paid them all out! We broke it down into savings, spending, and tithing and I am now current with what I owe them!

10.   Check in on my financial goals monthly.

Pass: Same as last month: so far so good. It’s so easy to be vigilant at the beginning of the year. The real test will be if we are checking in on our goals next October!

Overall, I’d give myself a B. I am “passing” on 10 of 20 goals, on track with 4 more, “failing” with only 4 of our goals, and “on hold” or “not yet started” another 2. I’m feeling pretty good about our start. We still have a long way to go but are making pretty good progress.

Overall my successes are in mostly the same categories and so are my failures… Must do better. Must put in more effort!

I can’t stress enough the fact that if we are successful with these goals, we will definitely be creating a firmer financial foundation!