Friday, November 30, 2018

Opt Out Option


I got the official okay that I can opt out of my healthcare for the remainder of the healthcare year. For my union, our healthcare year runs from October 1 to September 30.

Starting in January and with my January 30 paycheck, I will not have to pay for health insurance for the rest of the year. Until I actually receive that paycheck, I have no idea what that will do to my monthly take-home pay. I’m hoping that it will increase it by a good chunk!

I am still paying for my dental, vision, and life insurance to the tune of $229 a month, but I am no longer paying for health insurance. We are insured through The Husband’s work for our health benefits.

As everyone knows, health insurance is so confusing. If I’m reading everything correctly, I think I will only save about $100 a month, which doesn’t seem right, but that’s how the numbers look. Just like with my retro check, it’s a waiting game to see what my check will really look like. No matter what the outcome is, the extra difference will be sent towards our credit card debt. Our goal is to be out of credit card debt by the end of next year, so December 2019, and this is one more step to help us get there.

Our union has never been able to opt out of healthcare before which I have always hated. Between The Husband and me, we are double covered and his is way cheaper for the same coverage. I’m super excited that I get to opt out; even if only for a year. I will have to reapply next September and hope that I am one of the lucky 20% that is able to opt out of coverage.

Because we are covered by The Husband’s employer, I have always felt like having to pay for healthcare through my district is extortion! At least I have a small reprieve in having to pay for it! And hopefully the difference in my paycheck will be noticeable and help speed up our debt free date!!!

Friday, November 23, 2018

Outstanding Monies


Well, it is that time of year again. The time when we have outstanding money because of Christmas.

My dad owes us money for my mom’s stocking. (Years ago I took over buying my mom’s stocking and my dad pays for it. I but stuff all year and then add it up in December and he gives me cash.) I am not yet done with her stocking, nor have I totaled up how much I’ve spent, but usually I spend in the neighborhood of $300 - $400.

My brother-in-law owes us money for my sister’s stocking. (Last year her stocking was a little sparse and after years of joking with me to help him with her stocking, he actually asked me to this year.) I don’t know how much money he owes me, but I think it is approaching $100 and counting. I will continue to buy stuff as I find things that are perfect for my sister and will fit in her stocking. At this point, smaller is better as I have a few “bigger” items that will fit in her stocking.

My sister owes us almost $100 for tickets we bought for her for the Charles Dickens Christmas Fair which takes place in San Francisco every year. She was unable to print the tickets so I did it for her.

Lastly, my mom owes me almost $200 for different things I have purchased for her. I spend a lot of time with my mom so sometimes I owe her money and sometimes she owes me money. The closer it gets to Christmas, the more often she owes me money.

Currently we have about $700 worth of money outstanding to us. Most of it will be paid in a timely manner. (My mom usually doesn’t pay us back until several months after Christmas.) As I receive the money, I will send most of it towards our credit card debt. The money my sister gives us for the tickets, however, will be what we use to pay for the rest of our day there. It will pay for our food and any spending we do there (not including gifts). As I receive the money, I will send it as extra payments to our credit card.


Thursday, November 22, 2018

Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving!

I pray that you are healthy and happy and spending time exactly where you want to be this Thanksgiving.

Today I am thankful for so much: my wonderful husband, my beautiful kiddles, my extended family, a roof over my head, jobs we enjoy, and a roof over our head. I am abundantly blessed and I hope you are too!

Tuesday, November 20, 2018

Finally

Today is the day I get my retro check! I finally get to find out how much it is going to be for!

I've known about this check for a couple of months and I knew the percentage of my paycheck that it was going to be, but that didn't translate well into dollars in my head.

The plan for this money was to pay for Christmas. (About half of which I already bought, so I "owe" myself some money.) I was hoping the amount into my account would be about $750. And the closer it got, to "payday" the more anxious I have been getting.

I logged-in to my bank account online this morning and was so excited to see a deposit from my district in the amount of $1383.80!!! Woohoo! That's nearly double what I was expecting!

It actually will be enough to pay for everything we were hoping it would cover: Christmas gifts, food for our Christmas party, and our day at the Charles Dickens Christmas Fair. Depending on how much we spend on gifts, it might even be enough to cover, or at least contribute to, tickets to a family Christmas play!

I'm so excited! Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine I would receive almost $1400! Truth be told, I was afraid that my guess of $750 was high and that I wouldn't even get that much! This money really feels like a blessing as we head deeper into the holiday season. I'm so excited to have a way to pay for all our upcoming expenses and traditions. If we are being completely honest here, I wish the money had come weeks ago, but I am certainly not going to look a gift horse in the mouth!

I'm so excited! In a lot of ways, and for a lot of the people on my list, I have felt like I was at a stand still; now I can really start to make a dent in my Christmas shopping and start to cross things and people off of my list!

Sunday, November 18, 2018

Opt Out


For the first time this year, my district is offering the possibility of opting-out for our insurance plan.

Currently, I buy the lowest insurance through my district (as we use The Husband’s insurance, but have no option to opt-out) and I pay a little over $500 per month. This insurance cost includes vision and dental. We do use my vision and dental plan as we opted to not buy that through The Husband’s work.

Only 20% of our union is going to be allowed to opt-out. If more than 20% apply, we will hold a lottery to determine eligibility.

I’m going to apply to be able to opt-out. If I am able to do so I will use all the extra money to accelerate our debt pay-off.

I would still buy our vision and dental plan through my district. Those run about $200. That would allow me an additional $300 a month to send to our credit card. By increasing our debt payment by $300 per month, we would be able to get out of credit card debt 6 weeks earlier.

In the grand scheme of things 6 weeks doesn’t sound like much, but 6 weeks is 6 weeks. It’s 6 weeks less of debt payment. It’s 6 weeks less of interest paid on debt. It’s 6 weeks less of worry. It’s 6 weeks!

Hopefully I get selected in the lottery and I can opt out!

Wish us luck!

Saturday, November 17, 2018

Debt Update


Our last debt update wasn’t too bad. We paid off 3.1% of our debt total. Sadly, I don’t think we did as well this month. With Christmas coming, debt reduction has been difficult. However, I’m still considering it a win as long as we don’t increase our debt!

Okay, on to our debt update!

The debt we owe our children has continued to (ever so slowly) decrease. We borrowed almost $1500 from each child and have paid back $1150 to each of them, which means we are well over two-thirds of the way through paying them back! Although once we have fully paid them back, we will continue to deposit $50 into their bank accounts, I will be so happy when I can no longer consider them a debt! Our car loan has continued to decrease as well. We have a 0% loan so it’s nice to see the payment actually affect the bottom line; to that end, I don’t really focus on paying extra towards our car payment because it’s at 0% interest. I know that goes against what Dave Ramsey teaches, but I can’t see paying more interest on my credit card balance just to get an interest free loan paid off quicker.

I was doing really well using a cash-only diet for a couple months. I fell off-the-wagon so to speak. My credit card found its way back into my wallet and I have used if for small, frivolous purchases. I need to take it out of my wallet again and focus on using only the cash I have on hand.  I still need to do this, but with Christmas looming it’s been hard. I think I will focus on taking the credit card out of my wallet after Christmas, which I know sounds like a cop out, but as long as my debt is still decreasing I have to consider it a win. As long as our debt continues to go down and I am still paying off more than I am adding we are going in the right direction. I am happy to say that for the third month in a row, our overall debt decreased! (I am so happy to get to be writing that instead of having to say again that our debt went up!)

Here are our current debt totals:

            $19,814.17        Credit Card at 16.24% interest
            $350                 The Girl
            $350                 The Boy
            $5475.00           Car Loan at 0% interest
          
Our total debt stands at: $25,989.17. YIKES! I can hardly wrap my head around that number. I absolutely HATED seeing a 2 as the first number on our credit card and I’m so happy that our credit card debt is back under $20,000 and at least our credit card debt only has a 1 in the front! In the grand scheme of things, the actual amount of debt is not that much less but psychologically there is a huge difference! I’m hoping for a much bigger decrease next month!

Plus side: our debt decreased! We paid off over $750 of debt in actual dollars, which amounted to about 2.8% of our total debt. We continue to make progress on both our car loan and the loan to The Kids, and the fact that we haven’t borrowed any more money from The Kids. An unexpected bonus is that our total debt fell into the 25K-something range… barely, but it did. I didn’t expect that to happen until next month and I’m so happy it happened this month! Any little win is a win!

Down side: we didn’t pay off a total of $1000 which is what I’m still hoping for, and of course that several hundreds of dollars went towards interest on our credit instead of towards the principal.

Looking forward to: getting our credit card debt below $18000 and hitting my goal of under $18000 by 12/31/18 (which with our new debt plan should not be a problem). Making continued progress on our car loan and decreasing our overall debt from 25K-something to (possibly…. Maybe… hopefully) 23K-something.

Obviously all my financial goals for the year have been thrown out the window. There are only 2 months of the year left and I’m nowhere near where I wanted to be. However, I can’t change the past, all I can do is improve my future. Since our credit card debt is still so high, my goal for the end of 2018 is to be under $18000 in credit card debt. My other debts will continue to decrease at their slow and steady pace, but I am going to payoff $2000 more in credit card debt by the end of the year.


Clearly, I’m not in an ideal situation. But if I have to get out of debt one baby step at a time, I can do that.

WOW! This was another long post! If you stayed around until the end, thank you! If you got bored and moved on, I totally understand.

Look out goal #1: below $18000 in credit card debt by 12/31/18… I’m coming for you!


Friday, November 16, 2018

Christmas is Killing Me!


I am doing everything in my power to not increase my credit card debt this month… including transferring some money over from savings. We actually dipped just under $10000 in savings again (by $21), but we are putting money from our next two paychecks into savings so it will only be for a week.

But, again, I feel like I’m having to play catch up!

I know we dug ourselves into this mess and that no one else can get us out, but I’m sick and tired of every month being a battle to not increase our debt. Currently, the battle is because of of Christmas.
I did not plan well for Christmas. I understand that is my short coming, but knowing that I am going to have money to pay for it is not helping me right now.

This goal to get out of debt in one year is really quite ambitious. In fact, right now I’m starting to wonder if we will be able to do it. We are supposed to be paying $1600 a month towards our debt and so far we have only managed to decrease our debt by a couple hundred dollars each month. (There is a silver lining there in that we didn’t increase our debt; but it is not decreasing at nearly the rate I would like!)

This feeling I’m having that “Christmas is killing me” is helping me to plan for next year. I love that it is helping me to plan for next year, but I hate the feeling of Christmas being a burden. Like most people, Christmas is my absolute favorite holiday; but right now, I want to get out of debt and through Christmas without adding to our debt at all. And truth be told it remains to be seen if that's going to be possible.

I will just keep plugging away at our debt and buying Christmas gifts and necessities as frugally as possible.


Regardless of our debt, I do love this time of year; and that is what I need to keep in sight! I need to focus on the time spent with family, traditions, and (as cliche as it might be) remember the reason for the season.  By doing that, I will be able to enjoy the Christmas season and not fall further into debt.

If we can stick to our plan, this time next year, I'll be writing a post about being debt free and how it feels to pay for Christmas with cash!

Wish us luck!

Thursday, November 15, 2018

Five Days


Five days… five days! I find out how much my retro check is in five days!

Then I can finish up my Christmas shopping.

Then I can actually buy everything in my Amazon cart.

Then I can see where I am really at for Christmas.

The anticipation is killing me. I am anxious and excited and nervous.

I’m just ready to know. I want to know how much money I’m going to get so then I can determine how I’m going to spend it. I’m sick and tired of the hypothetical and I’m ready for the tangible!

All this is making me determined that I will budget better for Christmas next year. I will create a line item in my budget so that I am not in this same predicament next year!

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

Anxious


This post is a little funny coming on the heels of this post. But it's how I'm feeling and really a true barometer of the ups and downs of getting out of debt.

 I’m getting very anxious for my retro check. I know being anxious about it doesn’t change when it will get here or how much it will be, but I am anxious nonetheless.

Christmas is expensive and I have already spent so much money on it, with so much more to spend.
I am anxious to see how much money I am going to have and anxious to see if any of that money will be “leftover” to pay towards debt.

I have less than two weeks to find out how much money I will have to spend on the rest of our Christmas gifts.

In many ways, we are very far along. All The Girl’s “big” presents are already purchased. Her stocking is full and I really only need to buy her a few smaller things. We are having a little more difficulty with The Boy. He hasn’t asked for much and we are going to get him everything he asked for: portable charger, charging cord, Bluetooth speaker, and other small things like that. I am waiting until my retro check comes in to buy everything for him. His stocking is ready to go too. I’m also well in hand for shopping for The Husband and my parents. We still need to buy presents for my siblings and several of my nieces and nephews. We also need to finish shopping for The Husband’s family. To most people, that still sounds like a lot, but for my ginormous family we are actually about 50% done.

At this point, I just want to be able to finish up my Christmas shopping and know exactly how much money I have to spend. I can run numbers and make guesses all day, but because I’ve determined how I want to use that money, I want to know exactly how much money we’re talking and put that money to use!

Friday, November 9, 2018

Super Excited!


If you couldn’t tell by the title of this post… I’m super excited!

Since we are redoing debt, I was able to make a $1060 to our credit card. It’s the first real payment for our new plan. And it’s the first time in a long time I really feel like we are making progress.

Of course there have been some charges on the card as I have bought Christmas presents but haven’t gotten the money to pay for them yet. (That is coming in a retro check to me on 11/20.) We also charged The Boy’s birthday “party” expenses, which were about $250. However, we are making progress and have one more small payment that will go towards debt with The Husband’s next paycheck.

But right now, there isn’t much that can take away from my excitement of making some real progress. And going forward, I hope there is only going to be more forward progress!

With my paycheck today, we also paid back $50 more to The Kids and are getting oh-so-close to having them paid back. And once we get our credit card debt under $18000, we are going to knock that debt out completely! Hopefully that will be next week.

I know we still have a really long way to go; but I’m really excited to see some progress in the right direction!



I WON!


So I have some exciting-to-me news… I won a grant!

I guess this isn’t really personal finance related, but it is about finances.

I applied for a mini-grant through our county office of education. I teach a Home-Economics/life skills class for teenagers. It’s a new class at our site this year and I am starting from scratch! I am creating my own (standards-based) curriculum and everything. It’s a ton of work, but also a ton of fun!

Anyway, we have almost nothing for the class. I have been donated some small odds and ends but we really need just about everything.

I applied for $2900 to buy different supplies for the class. And I got it.

I’m super excited! Now I get to buy irons and ironing boards, sewing kits, dishes, pots and pans, food storage, silverware, and utensils for the class. In my proposal I also included $500 that can be used for “groceries”. With that we will buy some actual groceries, but I also intend to buy foil, plastic wrap, zip-lock bags and the like.

I’m super excited to get to purchase this stuff and then going forward, getting to use it!
I can’t wait to teach the kids basic sewing and how to iron.

I know all this seems silly, but these are life-skills many of the kids don’t have. This grant, more than doubled what my classroom budget was going to be so I am really excited to get to put the money to good use and to be able to do so much more than I would have been able to otherwise!

The class has been really fun, but exhausting, to teach! I have never taught Home-Ec before and it’s way out of my expertise. I am having to create my own curriculum which has been crazy. For the first month of school I was literally only one or two days ahead of the kids; now at least I’m planned for a couple of weeks ahead of them. This year is my guinea pig year, but I’m still having a blast!

I can’t wait to buy the stuff with the grant money so we can keep this class going!

Sunday, November 4, 2018

Unusual Spending for November

Sorry this post is a little late. I've actually had it written but life has been so crazy it's taken me over a week to post it!


I skipped October’s unusual expenses because, quite frankly, I just got lazy… trying to get back on the wagon for November.

November, like December, tends to be an expensive month for us. Besides the upcoming holidays, we have The Boy’s birthday to prepare for (15! Where does the time go?), our annual ornament making (which we usually do in November), our Christmas party favors, and a large needlework that needs to be framed.

For The Boy’s birthday, he wants to go to play airsoft. We are allowing him to bring 2 friends; at $65 a pop it won’t be cheap, but it’s what he wants to do and his gifts won’t be very expensive. He gets gifts twice from us: once on his birthday and once at our family parties. This year he will be getting a Lego Starwars Advent Calendar, a Lego City Advent Calendar, Fortnite cookies, and a box of books (his choice!) I might also buy him some different tee-shirts as he has been saying he wants some new ones. We have already purchased both of the Advent calendars and the “specialized” cookies, all we have left to get are his books. We have some Amazon gift cards and are hoping to order the books through Amazon so we won’t have to “pay” for them. He wants 13 books total and we will buy all of them for him and half will be for his birthday and half will be for Christmas.

The Kids and I make ornaments every year and have for about 10 years or so. We usually do this in November on Veteran’s Day as it we have no work or school. That is the plan for this year, too. We haven’t yet decided what we are going to make so we haven’t bought the supplies yet. We usually spend about $40 on supplies for all of the ornaments. Although it’s after the fact (November 20), I’m hoping to pay for this with the money we plan to use for Christmas. This will be the retro check I get for the negotiated raise I got this year.

Another thing that has to be paid for is the favors we will give out at our Christmas party. Every year I give out favors. Most years I hand make them. I have given out soaps, bath salts, jams, and the like. I have given out store bought favors on occasion, such as, cheese spreaders or bottles of wine. This year I want to decorate cheap candles from the Dollar Store. This will be half homemade/half store bought. J I usually make about 30 – 40 favors, so in this case about $30 - $40. I will also need to buy the markers which I found on Amazon for $15. I’m looking at another $50 - $60 for party favors next month. Again, I’m planning on paying for this with my Christmas money.

Our last unusual expense is some framing I need to have done. My mom made me a 16X20 counted cross-stitch that I need to have framed. 16X20 is a normal size so I have two possible avenues to follow: I can buy a pre-made frame or I can have it custom framed. I’m not opposed to either way, I just need to find what I like and I will buy it. I want that done by our party so I plan to get a frame sometime in the next month.

That’s all I can think of for now… I’m sure I missed a million things as I feel like I always do, but that’s where we are for now.

Thursday, November 1, 2018

Still Making Christmas Plans


So Christmas rolls around the same time every year and yet every year we end up putting in our credit card. That doesn’t make sense!

This year I am attempting to make some plans for Christmas and how to pay for it!

Just this past week I asked The Boy what he wanted for his birthday (in November) and Christmas. I’m going to ask The Girl this week, too. I explained to him, and I will to her too, that we can’t afford to wait until the week before Christmas to hear what they want. I told him we need to plan for stuff so that we can know how much we are going to want to spend. (*Sidenote – he seemed to understand because he already told us what he wants to do for his birthday.)

I have already bought one gift for The Husband and am working on a plan for what else I want to get him. In an older post, I talked about how I won two gift cards to Starbucks at a baby shower, I’m taking one of those to supplement The Husband’s other Christmas present and then I will be done with him.

I have bought a ton for our kids’ stockings and those are probably almost done. The same with The Husband’s, too. And I have some plans for gifts for adults/adult couples. At this point, it’s just a waiting game until I have money to pay for things.

We earn points for exercising from The Husband’s work/insurance. We save those points up and then redeem them for Amazon gift cards. Right now we have $210 waiting to be redeemed. We are going to redeem them in October so we can start shopping for Christmas.

We also have $290 waiting to be redeemed from our credit card. I am going to redeem that as a check instead of a statement credit in order to add to our Christmas budget.

Also, I am still awaiting 2 different retro checks: one at 1.56% for all of last year and one at 3.44% for a couple of months this year from a negotiated raise with our district.  Before taxes and deductions, the total for those two checks should be just over $1500. I’m hoping I will actually receive $800 into my accounts. (Our union president thinks we will be paid separately: one retro check in October and one retro check in November.)

We are looking to have about $1300 to spend on Christmas. I know to most people, this is a ton of money to spend on Christmas, but I have a huge family and buy for a ton of people! I shop for about 55-60 people altogether. We also have a Christmas party open house that we host every year and some family traditions that we do every year that cost money, too.

Our Christmas party is so fun and an opportunity to get to see some friends and family that we only see once a year. But it’s also very expensive. We buy pre-made foods that we would never normally buy and the costs definitely add up. In another effort to plan for Christmas, we will start buying food for the party in October and hopefully be able to fold a lot of it into our monthly grocery budget so it won’t be such a shock to our system come December.

We have probably already bought about 15 gifts. It’s actually not a bad start, but we still have much to do. But again, I can’t do anything until we actually have the money in hand.

If, by some small miracle, we don’t need to spend all the money on Christmas, anything left over will be sent towards debt. But I’m considering the fact that we are making a plan for Christmas, a win.
Again, this is all theoretical until we have the money in hand. And how much money I’m going to receive from my retro checks is just speculation until it hits my bank account. Regardless, I will put whatever the amount is towards paying for Christmas and I do know we have a guaranteed $500 as that money is already sitting and waiting for us to redeem it.

Whether this works out how I want it to or not, at least I am making a plan.